How do I fool her into doing what's best for her?

Talk to her tell her how you feel about this the shortest distance between two people is communication but it sounds like shes a people pleaser so this will be very difficult if she wont listen talk to those people chances are if they really care about her they are thinking the same thing you are. Help me now if you would http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnxRp3pUlHOE4GdOaD3XUyXsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20110522210201AAV3f4s